God dwells in us, as us.

Ever feel like all you do is blame others or circumstances for your misfortune? Seems like I hear a lot of "if only I had the time... money... dedication... willpower...." etc.. "then I would ________" (fill in the blank)

I can relate. I have spent some time here, in this mindset. It wasn't until I realized that -there is no one to blame but myself if I am not living up to my own expectations, and I don't have to have some deep philosophical reason for everything that I do- that things started to change for me.

For a long time, I tried to blame others, and for a while I even tried to blame god for not "helping" me. Then after a discussion with a friend, a simple idea came to me "I have all the power I need to do whatever I want. I just have to a good enough reason to do it...

The truth is, partly I was just being lazy and partly my brain and way of thinking were still too immature. I mostly just wanted someone else to do it for me. I also was not connected spiritually enough to realize I could do it. I didn't believe I had enough power inside of me. I thought I could only access that power if I had that deep philosophical reason.

So anyway...I had to get pretty frustrated before I realized no outside help was coming. Which turned out to be good news after all because I also finally realized that I didn't need it.

We all have everything we need right now. We have an infinite source of power available to us. The help had been here all the time. I just couldn't access it because I wasn't doing anything and had little faith.

So the secret I think, is in having faith that whatever you want to, you have the power you need right there inside of you to do it. Then life becomes simple. Life simply flows from you and through you, and brings with it an unlimited amount of energy.

And what's left is, GRATITUDE!

GOD. Dun, dun, dun....

I recently had a very, very helpful epiphany...

I have a spiritual program that I use to help me navigate life which has been very valuable to me over the past, almost ten years. Over these years I have gone back and forth with the concept of GOD. It has been a roller coaster for me, an actual love/hate relationship, and as a result -this most important relationship role model- has bled into many of my significant relationships.

You see I've had two "gods" in my life. One, an all encompassing sort of energy or Spirit which does not posses human qualities. And the other, my childhood god, a much more "traditional" sort of morphed Christian god. This one has human characteristics and is full of short comings....is punishing and inconsistent and very, very conditional. The funny thing is, until recently I had no idea I had both concepts.

When I am out in nature, especially remote areas, I know that there is a current that runs around and through the earth and every being here. It is palpable, visible and extremely powerful. I have felt it, seen it and experienced it. When I am aware of that "presence" or "energy" I am in awe and inspired. I feel small (right sized) and part of a bigger picture. I know that there is definitely a power greater than myself in those moments. A power I have within me to tap into when I need strength, patience, self control, determination or any other word in this genre...

So, now that I have had this realization I understand that I have been seeking assistance and strength from a very limited concept, and I know now why I have felt so alone and abandoned at times. So it makes sense to let go of this childish idea and embrace what I have know somewhere inside all along. That God is everything.

I spent some time feeling regret for putting so many limits on a truly unlimited source of power, but that doesn't do any good either...

I simply didn't know I didn't know; until I knew I didn't know, and my amends will be the gratitude I feel for this new awareness. :)

A Soul Slowly Dying?

We all know that the body has an expiration date, but does the soul? I guess it's possible. Sometimes Life just slips out of people. They slowly withdraw as expectations are not met and dreams are not realized...having had one disappointment after another Life becomes too risky to keep trying and the pain becomes too great. A Being can become numb and retreat within, giving up more and more of each moment until there is no momentum left at all.


I have seen this first hand. I have a friend who believes that there is absolutely no one in this world she can truly rely on or count on to be there for her. She feels completely and totally alone on a Soul level.
Now, she has had to walk through many tragedies in her life and has tried many, many times to pull herself up and try again. But with each set up and each fall, she has become more and more discouraged. She recently said to me "...its as if Life is leaking out of me"... "...and even the things that bring me joy have lost much of their luster. I question if I am making the smallest bit of difference or if any of the things I want or need matter at all".


I find this interesting because to look at this girl you would think that she has everything going for her. She has a good job, knows lots of people, is a member of her community, is of service to many people and appreciated for it...but in looking beyond the surface, its as if there is no one there at all...only a void. The essential fuel for Life is missing...Love. That connectedness to others on the level of Spirit. She feels as though it just isn't there for her.


It's sad really, every Soul has its journey and Life is ours for the interpretation. So why then can't she just change her interpretation and let go of what is limiting her? Is a flaw in the way she is wired up? It would seem so given all of the years of effort and searching she has been through. For all of us Life can seem like a sick joke sometimes, with no rhyme or reason to it all. I feel a tremendous amount of compassion for my friend and I hope and pray she finds Loves' connection to her.

Grand Canyon Double Crossing 2010

I know I have been very absent in my blogging and I have to say it's mostly because I have not been all that (originally) inspired...

What I have been committed to though is, surrendering control of things outside myself and I have adopted a new motto "what's the big deal?" Which reminds me not to take myself too seriously.

This seemed appropriate when I started getting into some big mileage training for the Grand Canyon double crossing. Each time we went up in mileage I just asked myself what the big deal was and realized that there really wasn't one unless I chose there to be.

Grand Canyon Trip

We got up to the Canyon on Saturday afternoon. The weather was perfect. It was cool, breezy and sunny. Theresa had never seen it before and I have to say, I think when she did the whole idea of what we were actually doing started to sink in for her.

We went to bed pretty early that night but neither of us slept very well. I was so excited I could hardly keep myself in bed! Thank God for the yoga and pranayama breathing! As it was I think I was officially awake at 230am. But what's the big deal right? I had to get up some time...

Day 1

We started down south Kaibab at 530am, the sun was just starting to light the sky and this trail is spectacular in the morning light. It is very dramatic -which I loved- with steep drops, narrow trails, funky boulder piles, deep red sand, tunnels and a cool bridge at the bottom to bring it to its end. We goofed around a lot on that trail, taking a bunch of photos and video but still managed to make it to Phantom Ranch while some of the other trekkies in the group were still there.

Phantom Ranch.

It sounds pretty exciting by the name of it but really, not so much. Its a building with some dorm houses surrounding it. You can get some ice here, for a price, and there are nice clean, big bathrooms -which really was the best part. We hung out here for about 20 minutes or so and had a snack, changed our socks, and washed our faces.

Then we were off to Roaring Springs. This is a small side trip that includes a waterfall -which by the way was ICE cold- and saved our feet! It made the extra mileage totally worth it! That is, until we found out that about 1 mile up the original trail the river crosses the trail and you can take your shoes off here and ice your feet down! Needless to say, next year we will bank on this spot for our feet!

Continuing on we came upon Aiken's place, this is where the trail starts to get steep heading up the north rim. We actually soaked our shirts here with cold water and our hats before heading up north Kaibab.

Up and up and up and up ....more waterfalls in the distance, then more up, more cool bridges to cross, then more up, beautiful dramatic cliffs and flora to check out and oh yea, more up!

At about 2 miles from the summit, Theresa decided to take out her poles and use them the rest of the way -little did we know that this was gonna be a decision she would later regret...

As we got close to the top there was snow on the banks beside the trail, but because of the grade I still felt warm. The last little bit of the trail was littered with "tourists" who were all fresh and smiling and who had no idea that we had been hiking for the past 12 hrs and 23 miles! They were a little annoying but we managed to make it up with out Theresa knocking anyone off the trail :)

Did I mention we were still going up? Ya? Ok. Well it did come to an end that first day and when we rounded the last switchback and I saw the trail head sign I got super excited and a BIG burst of energy! When we got to the top I was laughing and high fiving and hugging...then I noticed Theresa looked like she was gonna puke. Ya. Remember those poles? Well she had forgotten to drink any water the last few miles because she had her poles in her hands and had become dehydrated along with over exerted. Ah hindsight... one of Gods' little gifts.

That night was a rough one for her, she struggled with whether or not she should go back the next day being as she couldn't eat dinner and didn't have time to re-hydrate...in the end she decided to end her journey through the canyon on a good note (and with good memories) and chose to ride the bus back to south rim to meet me the next day.

(My dear sister, you are a rock star and this trip would not have been the same with out you there with me! We'll kill it next year, BOTH ways :)

Day 2

This time I slept like a rock! But was still up at 4am and starting down the north Kaibab trail at 530am! I found a few people trekking at the same pace and hiked that day with them. North Kaibab is spectacular as well on the way down and there is something about the morning light and the quiet that gives it all a very spiritual feel for me. I love to be out in the middle of Gods' creation with very little of mans input, it fills me up on a level that I cannot explain.

The second day went a little faster. The group I was with had done this all before and were not messing around. Though they did humor me when I stopped for the billionth time to take yet another photo of a flower or tree or river or squirrel.... what can I say I am a sucker for a beautiful scene.

Anyway......we made it to Phantom Ranch without incident and then to the base of Bright Angel. Ah, Bright Angel. I have no idea why this trail has been named an Angel. It begins with deep sand trails and did I mention that it is 9.5 miles of steep switchbacks? No? Ya, it is.

But hey, what's the big deal right? Ya well, my mantra for this leg of my journey quickly became "breathe and take another step" I mean really, what else was I gonna do? The park rangers are less than sympathetic. I think their mantra is "if you got down here on your own, you can get back up on your own", literally. They will not "rescue" anyone unless they are literally going to die. So up I went, smiling somewhere on the inside, because despite how fatigued my legs were and how sweaty and gross I felt, I was still there in this massive canyon getting filled up.

Once I rounded the last corner and saw everyone at the top of the trail, I got another energy surge and ran the last little bit! At the top I slipped off my backpack, looked around, and as soon as I saw Theresa I lost it for about 20 seconds... the reality of what I had just done hit me hard.

It was an amazing journey, one I will never forget and one I will definitely do again! I mean really, what's the big deal? ;)

Wilson Mountain Trail #10

So this weekend we headed up to Sedona to hike Wilson Mt Trail #10, an 11.5 mile loop up to the top of the highest peak in Sedona, climaxing at 7000 feet. Dolores decided to join us again, so it was her, Theresa and I.

We started out about 830am. The trail is steep right out of the gate and does not let up for the next 5.5 miles. It climbs up, switch back after switch back, through a beautiful Juniper tree forest, the trees were covered in berries from all the rain, it was quite a sight.

After a while the trail opens into a meadow, although its an UPHILL meadow and the switch backs stay constant! The trail, most of the way, is rocky. We noticed this much more on the decent than the ascent though. And its very narrow in parts due to all the overgrown shrubbery and cactus.

The weather was beautiful on the way up, it was sunny and not too cold. Once we reached the saddle though, we were hit by a strong, VERY COLD wind. Thankfully we brought lots of layers and bundled up here. We continued up, seeing only the second person of the day as he was coming down from the summit. This man greeted us with this gem, "The good news is the wind dies down once you get into the trees, the bad news is its muddy and there is some deep snow up there. But you girls look dressed for it! Have fun." He said this wearing only a smile, a thin jacket and shorts!

And yes... everything he said was true! We hit some VERY muddy trails, some parts even had running water coming down them! As we continuing up toward the summit, we would loose the trail where it would get covered in SNOW and have to follow muddy footprints (which I am sure belonged to that happy half naked man).

Now, this snow was no ordinary AZ snow...I mean, one would think with it being almost April and all that the snow would be thinned out, just a light layer over the trail....ya, not so much.

We had to REALLY step lightly here, because if we were unlucky enough to step wrong, our legs would disappear up to our knees!(even our hips in some spots)!!

In hind sight, T and I were remarking how thankful we were to have Dolores with us during these spots. She provided us with much entertainment as she was cursing and laughing and whimpering and then laughing and cursing....mostly talking to herself... but doing it just loud enough for us to benefit from it!! :) We love you D! Thanks!

Anyway.....about 200 feet from the actual summit we COMPLETELY lost the trail to the snow, so we had to trail blaze a little to reach the top. No worries though. We were careful to trample as little vegetation as possible, staying mostly in the dirt and snowy patches.

Once on the summit we trekked across the top to the to the other side so we could stand on the edge and collect our absolutely SPECTACULAR pay-off, what a view!

It is a shear drop to the bottom of this mountain with a full view of Sedona cliffs and surrounding areas.

Theresa even pointed out Mt. Rainier off in the distance, towards Flagstaff...!?! (OK, so it was really Mt. Humphrey's...but we will let her have it... ;)

After a bit, we found a nice little spot on the edge of the mountain out of the wind to have lunch and warm up in the sun. Then it was, back the way we came, which was another adventure in and of itself!

One I will leave to your imagination...

All in all Wilson Mountain Trail #10 was a very fun adventure, and totally worth the challenge!

Grand Canyon Double Crossing

So my sister Theresa and I are going to hike the Grand Canyon in May from the south rim to the north rim and BACK! We are going with a running group (however we will not be running)and it will take us 2 days. Hike rim to rim, sleep in a hotel, hike back rim to rim.
We are going to try to document our training and adventures as we prepare for this crazy expedition.
So far we have been hiking in the Superstitions and South Mountain; and have found some pretty good trails. Next weekend we will be heading up to Sedona to climb Mt. Wilson. I will post some photos and blog about our adventure. Recently my other sister Dolores has decided to hike some of our long hikes with us which has made the routes all the more entertaining as she hasn't really been doing any excersizing for the past decade!! :)

Wish us luck!

A Limited Time Offer

How preciously short this lifetime is and -far as we know- only one shot to experience all of the wonders available to us here.

I was watching the previews to a movie the other day and "A Limited Time Offer" flashed across the screen. I immediately thought, that's what life is. A limited time offer...what are you gonna do with it?

In answer to that question I realized that I have become so much less interested in getting and doing and much more interested in experiencing and feeling.
I believe life is about people, animals and the environment, and how we are all interconnected. Not a new idea I know, but that is what makes it all the more powerful. This has been the truth for a long time...well, always.

A person can get so distracted with all the stuff and all the "doing" that at the end of the day (or lifetime) there is nothing of substance to reflect on. Literally no love experienced and therefore lost, no relationship that held any connection, no peace to be found. How sad... to live an entire lifetime here and to have missed the joy, love, laughter, sorrow, struggles, companionship, camaraderie, and friendship available for us.

Yet, so many people are waiting for day when they will have the time. The time talk to the person they have been meaning to call or visit the ones they would love to see...if only they had the time. It doesn't occur to us that we have the power to make the time. We just need to rearrange our priorities. There is ALWAYS time to spend with one another and connect to earth, what stands in the way is an illusion. We will never have the time if we are waiting for it. And don't forget, this is a Limited Time Offer and time is running out!

As much as we try to ignore it and avoid it, there is no getting around it. Our life here is temporary. And I don't know about you, but I intend to do the important things I have been putting off as they relate to this earth and the ones who actually live here. And to build upon the relationships I have, be of maximum service to the earth and those who cross my path and fill up on all of the love available to me.

I feel like I am a late bloomer when it comes to awareness but am so grateful to have this little bit of insight to help me along and bring me closer to the Source of it all.

Service and Intention

"...being careful not to pray for ourselves...we may pray for ourselves if others will be helped.." This comes out of a book I use for daily living.
For 9 years now I have been practicing this principle to the best of my ability. A little while ago I was speaking with a trusted friend about this concept and explaining how things just weren't working out like I was planning them, how I was uneasy and restless, and how frustrated I was with god. I was frustrated because I felt like I was praying and being of service, generally being a good person and yet was not being "rewarded" for my efforts. That's when the light bulb when off. Oops. I guess I had been praying for myself under the guise of being of service all along.
Its amazing how the mind can sort things out so that I can still cater to my ego and selfishness and in doing so, keep Me completely blind to it.
I have changed how I do things lately, especially prayer and intention. Its far from perfect and I am sure I will figure out a way to bring things back to me. I guess that is why they call faith a practice... at any rate I am noticing a major difference.
All I have really done differently is attempt to put being of service first in all I do. I am trying to remember that I don't know what is the best thing for me necessarily and I have to have guidance from within to know. To me, that guidance is accessed by simply asking "where would I be of the most service" and for the strength (and discipline) to go where I am lead.
Its true the best things in life are the most simple and once I stopped over thinking and adding to this principle, keeping it in its most simple and literal form...miracles start to happen, simply as a side affect...

Stormie Garrisi 1995 to 2009 Rest in Peace

November 12, 2009 the world lost a precious little soul. Stormie Garrisi was put to rest due to an intense desire to preserve her quality of life. Stormie had developed chronic renal failure and began treatment that she would need for the rest of her life. The treatment however brought to light a heart condition and liver condition that may have been with her for some time. She developed fluid in her chest and was having trouble breathing and was no longer eating...

Throughout her life Stormie enjoyed watching the birds outside, chasing, carrying and fetching her favorite little red balls, playing with strings, being brushed, eating tuna fish, and rubbing her cheeks on any hard surface she could find. In her final days she enjoyed basking in the sunshine and sleeping on Jennifer's grandmas' handmade blanket.

Stormie will truly be missed. She was a good friend, comforting, unconditional and always loving. She is survived by her adopted older brother Sunnie and her caregiver...me.

Thank you for the joy you brought to my life, Stormie. I will miss you very much.

Enjoy the Journey

So the clouds have finally parted and I am feeling very much myself again (better than that actually!) What I have learned over this past, very dark, 9mos is to keep on going, praying and working as best I can because even when I think nothing is happening and things are getting worse...it turns out they are not and I am eventually lead to where I need to go to get the answers I need.

That said, I want to share what is happening NOW :)

I have set some new fitness goals for the next year which include PF Changs 1/2 marathon in January, hiking the Grand Canyon rim to rim to rim in May, and then a full marathon next September! I am very excited.

I have run a 1/2 marathon before but this time I am doing my training in a completely different way. I got a VO2 test to determine where my heart rate should be when I run, how much oxygen I am taking in, and to see whether I burn fat & carbs while I workout or just carbs....

It was so helpful to have this information. This is going to help me create a really strong aerobic base, increase my endurance level and eventually my speed. But there is one catch...at first I have to go SUUUUPER slow. Now if you know me, you know that I am an all out kind of person. I go as fast as I can, for as long as I can.

So far, I am noticing how I am now able to enjoy each moment as it passes and be fully present while I am running. For the first time, I can see why people say they love to run. And I believe them when they say it relaxes them and gives them time to listen and talk to God. With the way I have trained in the past there was no time for any of that...it was iPod in my ear, breathing as hard as I could...looking for the finish line.

This was not only true for running, with me it was everything. I went hiking yesterday and it was amazing to me how much more I enjoyed myself being able to go at a slower pace. And I already LOVE to hike and thought I was getting a charge out of it.

Now, I will say I have had a few frustrating moments. It's challenging for me to be patient and disciplined enough to go slow. I'm keeping the faith though. And trying to remember that building this foundation will eventually lead me to the goals I want to achieve for my health, and keep me doing it for the rest of my life.

I will let you know how its going!

I wonder what God must be thinking....

I wonder what God thinks...??

There are some of us that struggle with the things of this world, what's it all for and being in it, although outwardly and to others it may seem for no apparent reason. Some call it disposition or personality, others say its just that they are not wired right...
Its an interesting question to me. That is, why some of us struggle and some of us seem to be relatively content throughout their lives.

What does God think as he (or she) watches the show? I would think it would be frustrating...to have provided all the virtues needed to ensure nice contented and useful lives, but to watch so many of us never even TRY to use them...Or -if we do try, to watch us quit and give up so quickly. What does God think when listening as we question an Existence beyond ourselves when our pasts are filled with loads of evidence of Grace? What must God be thinking...?

God certainly isn't powerless, so why sit back and watch and listen as we struggle? Why not intervene? Why must we feel so alone at times? In order to learn some lesson? Teach us some virtue? Create Faith? These questions in and of themselves must be frustrating to God. ...Must be disheartening to God...

Why do some of us spends hours pondering this type of thing, while other spend maybe a moment in their lifetime -usually when dying- to ponder such things? Its an interesting question...One that sadly, we will not know until we die -and then maybe we won't. And in any case we will not remember, if it so happens... we have to do this whole thing over again...

What must God be thinking?

From Within

Most truths are very simple and one of these simple truths has moved from my head to my heart recently. This is it:

Happiness is within.

Yep, that's it. I know....it may not hit some of you with any force... So I will complicate it a little in order to explain my situation and maybe inspire anyone who is actually reading this.

I am sure you have already heard this, I had heard something like it for sometime... "Look inside yourself to find true happiness" or some version of that, but what I didn't realize is that I was so caught up in what my "idea" of happiness was that I couldn't really listen.
I fully and completely believed that I knew what I needed to have in my life for me to be happy and complete. Let that sink in a minute...

Now the trouble with thinking you absolutely know something, is that something else inevitably happens to teach us that we don't absolutely know anything. This is so true for me because not too long ago I achieved all the things I knew would make me happy. I had all of the components of my happy life in place and things were going great. Of coarse there where still things to achieve but I was right on target and well on my way to the summit where I could sit down, relax and enjoy the view for the rest of my life...
Writing this down and looking at the enormity of my naivety is pretty humbling, but its the truth regardless. I felt that way. I was holding on so tightly to an idea that when I began sliding back down the mountain I was completely unprepared to deal with it. I just kept slipping and slipping and when I hit the bottom... I found a crevasse and fell even deeper still.
I stayed in the dark for a while, groping around frantically, trying to figure out how I could start all over again (toward the same ideal!). I would start to climb and then fall, climb and fall, over and over until I completely gave up, sat down devastated and resolved that this was IT.
In my mind, there was no help coming and the mountain seemed to big to try to do it all over again. I also had in my mind, that even if I did get back to the top, there were no guarantees anymore. I mean, I was there, and I lost it! That wasn't in the "plan to Gabi's happy life"...

After sometime -and through a series of serendipitous events- a realization gradually came over me...there is nothing, absolutely nothing, that will make me happy. To be happy all I need to do is think and act on the things that I find happiness in, and I need to do that NOW, regardless of circumstance.
Again, so simple. Almost too simple.
What I realized is there can be no more "in order to" or "when I get this I will have that". No more cause and effect. I already have it. It is here and now in everything I do. Happiness truly is in the journey.
I feel as though I am on new legs wobbling around with this new found hope, inspiration and gratitude...all there is to do now practice and remember.

Which Way Do I Go?

So I went to Sedona for a couple of days to get out of the heat and into the hills for some "me and God" time...

I had a couple of hikes planned out but nothing set in stone. When I arrived in town I stopped at the ranger station to get a parking pass and ended up asking the ladies there if there was anything they would recommend hiking. One woman suggested West Fork -its a short tree covered hike that follows the river, I took her advise and it was just what I needed.

The next day I was planning on hiking a few of Sedonas' vorex spots...

(A vortex is the funnel shape created by the motion of spiraling energy. The vortexes in Sedona are swirling centers of subtle energy coming out from the surface of the earth. They characterize Sedona as a spiritual power center. The energy is not exactly electricity or magnetism, although it does leave a slight measurable residual magnetism in the places where it is strongest.)

There were five I had on my list and of coarse initially I thought I would hike all five.

Ya. Well, I soon realized I would not have the time or energy to do that so I was trying to narrow it down to two or three.

One hike, Airport Loop kept coming up for me, but for some reason I wasn't sure I wanted to do that one. The name didn't sound all that appealing first of all, compared to say Cathedral Rock and Castle Rock...which were the other ones on my list. But something kept bringing up Airport Loop for me. So... the next day I decided I would start with Airport Loop.

I drove out to the trail head and parked, then realized I had to go to the bathroom, so I went back down into town. As I got back in the car I started to doubt again whether I should hike this hike or head out to some of the other "better sounding" hikes. I decided to say a little prayer asking that I just drive were I needed to go and if I wasn't to hike this hike then to be lead to another one. I pulled out and drove right back up to the same trail head and parked.

As I climbed the hill to start the hike I could see a couple of the other peaks that were on my list and more than once during the first mile or so I contemplated turning around and going on a different hike. I guess maybe I thought I would miss out on something better or something like that, but I disregarded my thoughts, got over myself, and looked around...

The first half of this hike was pretty spectacular really. There were full views of Sedona and many of her red rock peaks. There was no one else out there and the weather was really nice. I started to let go and get into the hike. As I rounded the first half of the loop coming out on the summit, I felt really in tune with my environment and noticed when I stopped, I was visually experiencing the affects of being in this vortex. It felt and looked as though the trees were being "pulled in and down" toward the center of the mountain. That is about the best I can describe it and that really doesn't do it justice...

After a few minutes, I started started back down the other side of the mountain. I walked past a large bush and heard a rustling in it. This made me sort of jump a little before I slowly turned to see what it was, (I was fully expecting a snake or something similar!). But, to my surprise it was a little bunny rabbit.

He (we'll guess it was a he for the sake of this story) was jumping around but not going anywhere. As I got close to it I could see why. His little ear had been pierced by a large thorn from the bush and in his attempts to free himself, he had wrapped his ear tight around the branch!

I reached down and grabbed hold of his little body (secretly hoping not to get bit!) slowly picked him up, and unwrapped him from the branch. Then I pulled him off of the torn and set him down. Off he went! Without even so much as a pause of appreciation!! ;)

Well, you may have guessed by now where this story is going... I felt elated after helping that little guy. It made it all worth it! I didn't even mind the rest of the hike being accessorized with construction or the view of the boring ol' airport!

I felt very much a part of life and Its plan!

And had I not listened to my intuition and continued on the path I was on even in the face of doubting whether or not it was the perfect path to be on, I would not have been there to help that little bunny. Now, I don't know whether or not someone else would have helped him and it doesn't even matter...the point is, I was there and present enough to notice him.

This was wonderful validation for me and I has helped me to remember to follow my intuition and know that I may never know exactly where and to whom I will be able to be of service.

"I'm not saying it's bad or anything..."

Human beings have inherited the experience of making ourselves, situations and the people around us wrong. It's age old. We do this from the moment we wake up in the morning, all throughout the day until our heads hit our pillows and we finally slip in to unconsciousness -where we may or may not also continue to make ourselves, situations and others wrong while we dream...!

Think about it. We are problem solving machines. We exhaust ourselves trying to find solutions, and in order to solve any problem and find the solution first something must be wrong. We wake up in the morning and we are hungry, gotta go to the bathroom, brush our teeth, wake the children, feed the children, take a shower etc...all solutions to problems. I'm not saying it is wrong or anything, this is just what we do as a species on autopilot.

What if we came from the experience that nothing is wrong, ever? Even when seemingly there is something wrong!

What if there really is nothing wrong because everything is perfect? Wouldn't we be at peace?

I have been trying this experience on this week and it has been a wonderful, frustrating and very eye opening experience.

Give it a shot or at the least sit with the thought and let it get you...

I'll bet, the first thing you do is try to make this perspective wrong somehow, or solve some sort of problem with it... ;)

More, Better, Different...

Ever notice yourself saying "If only I could get/do/be *fill in the blank* then I would be happy"? Or how about this one, "At least I'm not as bad as used to be." Or maybe this sounds familiar, "If only I was a little more *fill in the blank*, then I could get what I want out of life".

We all get caught up in wanting to be a little better, a little more or somehow different than we are. We get stuck trying to change what we already have in the hopes of one day it will be enough to "get where we want to be".

This is an illusion.

What if all of this is simply a reoccurring thought pattern that goes round and round like a broken record, in order to give our minds something to do?

The mind is a tool and when we set it to auto-pilot, it will simply play old ideas over and over again because it has to do something, it never stops. Think about it. It takes an incredible amount of discipline to meditate and quiet the mind even for a moment. The mind is always talking and we are always listening to it, even when we are not aware that we are listening.

So what exactly are we listening to? That is a great place to start. What goes around in your head? What are you telling yourself? I'm fat and lazy? I'm fabulous and hyper? The thoughts themselves don't really matter much except to identify a pattern so we can see where we are lying to ourselves.

If you look at the thought in the moment, it is no longer true for that moment. For the majoity of us, it's an old thought, based on an old situation and an old judgment that you or someone else made about you, that you bought into and are selling over and over to yourself on a regular basis. Ya, take a moment and let that sink in.

We are dynamic beings and it is impossible to be the exact same person in this moment as we were in the last, unless we make it our goal to be that way. Now, if we have the option to create our experience in the moment why then do we choose the old tape? There has to be a reason.

So, what's your reason? Who are you proving wrong? Or right for that matter. What are you trying to justify? If you look hard you will find all your precious energy is being wasted on yep, an illusion. An illusion say for example, that you are somehow the same person you were when you were 5yrs old and your mom walked out on your family. The same small child that told themselves not to trust and get close to women because they will all leave. If we look at the life of that now grown adult I would be willing to bet there are no significant relationships with women they fully trust. So now this adult is still living with the opinion of a perception of a 5 yr old child. By the way, we all do this.

On the flip side of this though, once this idea is identified as simply a story that applied to one woman when this person was 5 yrs old and not the rest of the entire female population; that leaves space or a void now to create whatever kind of relationship you like. Now that there is nothing, anything is possible. And the experience simply becomes a new moment to create what you want.

Of course we don't know this is happening or we would stop right? Right. So start listening. What old ideas are you telling yourself. Is that idea happening right now? Probably it is to some extent because we have to make our stories true. So we create the same situation over and over again...Stop believing the old tape has any value now and you will be free to create a new experience in each and every moment.

An Evening with Eckhart Tolle

Here is a brief bit of what I took away from my evening with Eckhart Tolle:

We are bound for disappointment if we believe that any external thing will bring us happiness. Getting that perfect job, finding the perfect mate, having enough money, losing "x" amount of weight, owning our dream house, buying our dream car...these are all perfectly ok goals to have but by no means are the means to finding our true selves and obtaining happiness in this life.

We get so caught up in defining ourselves by our stories. That is, what we do, who we know, what we have, or what we can do and our minds are so cluttered with all of these thoughts about what we should be doing to get where we need to be that we cannot find ourselves even though we are right here all the time. These things are not who we are and they cannot possibly bring us the happiness we seek.

When we do actually achieve a goal, how often do we celebrate it and continually enjoy the happiness reaching it brings? Not long right? Just long enough for us to think "ok that's done... what's next?" Or worse yet, we are disappointed that reaching our goal didn't bring us the joy we thought it would. So we seek yet another "thing", outside ourselves, resuming our search for happiness. We do this because once we find "IT" we falsely believe we will then be able to relax and enjoy the rest of lives in a constant state of bliss.

There is no thing that will bring this feeling to us. The feeling is inside of us. In order to access it we must be still in our minds long enough to feel it. What a challenge this can be. The mind seems to be its own entity at times, completely controlling our every second with senseless and futile chatter. When we realize that we are not our mind and that it is simply a tool for us, like our hands or our feet, that is when we can start to understand and investigate who is behind the mind, controlling the mind...and what we find is something much deeper, Spirit. Or whatever Name you want to give it. There is something much greater that we have access to, that we are a piece of. And once we tap into who we are essentially that is when we start to feel it...true happiness, joy, peace and serenity, even in the midst of chaos.

So try it, you know those familiar words "Be still and know..." Try first by noticing the space between words or sentences...when there is seemingly nothing there. If you try long enough you will find there more than you could have ever imagined.

Cleanse, Play, Sweat

It is amazing to me how different I am from the person I was a decade ago, and yet how much closer I am to who I actually (am) or was as a child.

CLEANSE: Today is my 7th day on Stanley Burroughs Master Cleanser (http://www.mastercleanser.com)./ Over the past 5 years I have done this cleanse for a varied number of days, sometimes feeling successful and other times not. I entered into this cleanse with a whole different mindset than the other times I've done it. I am doing it for me this time, with my eyes wide open. It's not about "white knuckling" it to get it done and see how long I can go. This time it has been about using it as an opportunity to understand myself on a deeper level and clean out my body and mind of the junk that has accumulated in both. So far, I can honestly say that I have a new understanding of my relationship with food and what it means to me...

PLAY: Friday night I went down to 7th Street Cafe to watch a fellow yoga teacher and actor perform in Phaedre (a Greek Tragedy) put on by the Nearly Naked Theater. It was an amazing play and such an intimate setting (only about 50 people were able to be seated there). This was a "talk back" experience where the public is asked to join the director, writer and actors in the cafe after the play to discuss it. I didn't stay for the talk but it felt good to be a part of the experience...

On Saturday I went to the Dodge Theater in Phoenix to listen to Eckhart Tolle speak on The Power of Presence: Going Beyond Ego. It was also an amazing experience. Reading Tolle's first book "The Power of Now" changed my thinking about my thoughts and the ego. It was a very pivotal book for me. Right when I walked into the theater I could feel the energy vibration of the room rise a few levels, it was definitely palpable...

SWEAT: This morning I attended my second Native American Sweat Lodge. This is something that I have been wanting to do for a while now and finally got the opportunity to be a part of. It was an "east sweat" which is about developing your passion, vision and opening to enlightenment...

If you would have told me, a decade ago, that I would be doing these things over a weekend instead of partying and bathing myself in the self-centered and materialistic past-times; I doubt I would have cared to do any of it. Today I am so grateful for the shift in consciousness and the opportunity to get back to who I really am.

Hey Cat Lady

About four months ago 3 kittens showed up in our neighborhood...cute little things but skiddish... Then about 3-4 weeks later a big black and white tom cat and a little female cat showed up. Rumor is some lady moved and just let them all out.

Well I started looking on line for a rescue or an organization that could help us out with this problem. All the info I could find said to start feeding them to gain their trust so that they could be trapped. So I did. Little did I know that there were no rescue organizations that could take them. Or that Arizona is a "right to roam" state...meaning cats don't have to be tagged so the county will not help will capturing them. And that if I took them to the pound they would be euthanized right a way because they were not social. Meanwhile, the neighbors are all complaining about them and trying to blame someone but few are trying to find a solution. "Take them to the pound" is the best advice I could get from people... Well that is just not how I am wired. Some people can and that is who they are. I can't and that is me.

So I have done my best to keep the faith and move right along trying to find a solution. I called channel 3 news, channel 12 news, asked my vets office, even considered paying for each one to get fixed at my vets office so I could socialize them and find them homes. Oh by the way- did I mention that all the while the two pets that I have (indoor only) have started having behavioral problems because of all the cat calling and fighting outside the windows? Ya...

Anyway, I stumbled across AZ Cats which is a trap, neuter, return program. They hooked me up with a vets office that would fixed the cats for a "donation"and they provided me with 5 cat traps and all the info I needed to capture them. Today I set the traps and caught all 5 cats. They are in my garage waiting to see what happens next.

Thankfully, my neighbor has a friend who lives on a farm who has agreed to take the three kittens, what a blessing! The other two will come back here. Hopefully more mellow, without all those hormones flowing in their bodies. I will try to find homes for them.

This past four months has been trying for me and it surprised me how most people just wanted to tease me, calling me the "cat lady", and give me crap about caring so much. Some people talk all tough about how they would just take them to the pound or drop them off somewhere else if it were them ... but they don't actually think through what they are saying long enough to realize there is way more to it than they think...

Sadly, the truth is most people don't care. They turn a blind eye or pretend its not their problem, desperately trying to find someone to blame.

Well, this experience has given me a whole new respect for people who DO care and my hat is off to the men and women who spend their extra time trying to help catch up to this epidemic problem. Taking in stray animals, fixing them and finding homes for them is a time consuming and heartbreaking task... I give them credit for investing their time, money and emotion; and for not taking the "easy" way out. It takes a special type of person to volunteer to do this... I was sort of pushed into helping the ones I am trying to help, it was not by choice...I am talking about the people who can handle this on a regular basis. It truly is selfless and I am truly grateful for all they do.

And to the people who adopt pets and do not get them fixed, let them roam and breed, or feel it is ok to abandoned the responsibility they took on by just leaving it for someone else to deal with...

Karma is a funny thing.... Keep your fingers crossed you don't come back as a stray animal in your next life. And if you do....may you be lucky enough not to happen upon someone who feels like you do in this one.

Thank you to the people who offered support during this adventure, it was much appreciated!

Just Friends

Can men and woman truly just be friends? This is a very popular question, one society has been experimenting with and debating for ages...

What do we mean by "friends"? Of coarse we can be friendly and kind to all people if we choose to. But close friends? Who hang out together, go do things together, have long talks about significant things together...? It has been my experience that if you are compatible in that you enjoy spending time with another person doing all of these things, then even if there is no physical connection in the beginning, one will eventually develop from one or both sides of the relationship. I have found this is true even if a friendship is defined from the beginning, there is no physical attraction, or one or the other person is in another significant relationship. It may take a very long time to happen but it is human nature and even the most well intentioned people run the risk of losing a close friendship if they become too intimately connected as "friends".

Now what about the romantic relationship that ends and one or both people want to continue to be "friends"? I think this is a nice idea and one would think that we should be able to do this. But usually a relationship ends because at least one person is no longer interested the other person. So, could this "friendship" idea really be just a one sided ego boost?
Again I think the definition of the word friend applies here too. And as I eluded to before, men and women are not designed to stifle the energetic draw between them, the pull of yin and yang if you will. That is why when a relationship ends it is unrealistic to think you will still be able to have the same kind of friendship relationship with one another and not get things confused.

So, while I definately don't have all the answers, and of coarse to each "rule" there is always the exception (gay men and straight women or vise versa, or related men and women, etc)... It is my opinion that while men and women can definately be friendly, it is unlikely they will be able to maintain for any length of time a truly close plutonic friendship; without one or the other or both becoming romantically interested.

Planting a Seed..

So I heard a passage yesterday that goes something like this...A young man came upon a elderly man who was planting a seed in order to grow a fruit tree. The young man asked him "Why are you planting a seed for a tree whose fruit you're never going to see?" The elderly man replied, "I live my life as if I am never going to die." The young man smiled and thought to himself, "How ironic, I live my life as if today is my last day on earth!"

This interests me because many people live as if there were no guarantees of another day here on earth, me being one of them. Go for it! That's been my modo...Do it while there is still time, you never know if tomorrow your are going to get hit by a bus or something!

I think this kind of thought inspires courage to go after what you want and achieve your dreams, but it doesn't speak much to patience and being of service.

I like this new perspective of living as if I am never going to die. The thought itself gives me a chance to pause, take a deep breathe, and consider what to do next. It helps to dissolve fear and anxiety and bring me into the present moment. It also gives me an opportunity to ask,"What can I do to help the planet, an animal or another person have a better experience now and in the years to come...?"